My old babysitter is our best family friend but smokes non stop and im afraid shes gonna smoke herself dead soon, and yet she is still young. Any ideas on how to get her to stop smoking before she kills herself by smoking??
I know how you feel wanting someone you love to stop smoking…I went through the same thing with my dad.Well you could begin with telling her how much you love her and dont want her to die young…Also tell her how much money she could be saving by not smoking…my dad only smoked around two packs a day and is saving $56 a week.And last but not least tell her that if she doesnt stop pretty soon she could end up in a hospital or a funeral home and miss out on all the things god has planned for her…Wish you the best of luck
As a smoker myself, there is NOTHING you could do to change her habits. U can lead a horse to water, but, u CANT make them drink! She has to decide and make the decision for herself!!
Lecturing her just makes it worse!!
Good luck!!
A smoker is like a drinker they have to want to quite!!
All you can do is talk to her about your concerns and tell her how much she means to you and your family and that you want her to be around to meet your grandchildren!!
Good Luck!!!
explain the evils of smoking and the effects about them for the surroundings. it may hurt the children also. if not, ignore her to be babysitter and say the same to her.
You can’t — I’m a smoker — the more people get on my case, the more it makes me want to smoke. Leave her alone — she’ll quit when SHE is ready to — not on your terms.
shes a grown woman and the choice is really hers you can ask her not to smoke in your house but that is as far as you can go with this you cant make her stop[ its not against the law
My grandmother smoked forever (40-50 years) and she recently (about six months ago) went and got hypnotized. She hasn’t smoked since. She is doning really good, even with my grandfather still smoking in the house everyday. Wish he would go next
you cant they have to want to stop. i smoked 25 years and nothing anyone said made me stop i had to do it myself. the more you say anything about it the more they will want it so leave her alone. I stopped 10 years ago .
tell her to begin a group to help her stop good luck on that one
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Comment by Smiley face. :) on 9 August 2009:
I know how you feel wanting someone you love to stop smoking…I went through the same thing with my dad.Well you could begin with telling her how much you love her and dont want her to die young…Also tell her how much money she could be saving by not smoking…my dad only smoked around two packs a day and is saving $56 a week.And last but not least tell her that if she doesnt stop pretty soon she could end up in a hospital or a funeral home and miss out on all the things god has planned for her…Wish you the best of luck
Comment by hazardous on 9 August 2009:
As a smoker myself, there is NOTHING you could do to change her habits. U can lead a horse to water, but, u CANT make them drink! She has to decide and make the decision for herself!!
Lecturing her just makes it worse!!
Good luck!!
Comment by DeeDee on 9 August 2009:
A smoker is like a drinker they have to want to quite!!
All you can do is talk to her about your concerns and tell her how much she means to you and your family and that you want her to be around to meet your grandchildren!!
Good Luck!!!
Comment by home energy saving on 9 August 2009:
Stick the patch on her when she isn’t looking.
Comment by prince47 on 10 August 2009:
explain the evils of smoking and the effects about them for the surroundings. it may hurt the children also. if not, ignore her to be babysitter and say the same to her.
Comment by butterfl on 10 August 2009:
You can’t — I’m a smoker — the more people get on my case, the more it makes me want to smoke. Leave her alone — she’ll quit when SHE is ready to — not on your terms.
Comment by ? on 10 August 2009:
shes a grown woman and the choice is really hers you can ask her not to smoke in your house but that is as far as you can go with this you cant make her stop[ its not against the law
Comment by heidinic on 10 August 2009:
just keep telling her that you love her and don’t want her to die young.
Comment by ~brigit~ on 10 August 2009:
My grandmother smoked forever (40-50 years) and she recently (about six months ago) went and got hypnotized. She hasn’t smoked since. She is doning really good, even with my grandfather still smoking in the house everyday. Wish he would go next
Comment by CoNfUsEd ChIcK on 10 August 2009:
Jus tell her that she will die try to scare her then tell her u love her.
Comment by sherry r on 11 August 2009:
you cant they have to want to stop. i smoked 25 years and nothing anyone said made me stop i had to do it myself. the more you say anything about it the more they will want it so leave her alone. I stopped 10 years ago .
Comment by minnie m on 11 August 2009:
tell her to begin a group to help her stop good luck on that one